I am apparently on the **** list from another SIL and BIL. After the big family fight at my house, the SIL went crying to her hubby. Now, I have always called him the good BIL but it seems that her version of events have caused him to dislike me.* I keep hearing how they do for me and we never help them out. He’s a mechanic and **** hot welder and has helped me out at times. We have bought them groceries without being paid back, watched their kids when needed, loaned them money and let them borrow stuff that somehow becomes their property. Not sure how I’m the bad guy again, but I really don’t care enough to put in the effort to clarify the issue. The wife’s grandparents, whom have treated me like their own, are upset with me as well. The MIL told them her version of events from the day I called her a ****ing bitch. She left out a few details, like calling my son (her grandson) a little bastard first. She also forgot that she started it all, she was threatening the wife and she starts **** every time she comes over. The other SIL did come to my defense though. Not sure if that really helped. It’s kind of like Mussolini defending Patton to the Brits for hurting Hitler’s feelings.*